Play Dress Up
When a couple has been together for a long time, they become more accustomed to showing more relaxed sides of themselves. This is a really lovely feeling, but wearing sweats day to day doesn’t always inspire frisky business. Try changing up your ensemble next time you try to woo your partner, just a little extra effort can set their head spinning.
Enjoy A Change of Scenery
There’s something about going to the same room every night that makes us fall into a routine, and that’s no good for anyone’s love life. Give yourself permission to go a little crazy, and invite your man to stay with you at a hotel or rental room for the night. There’s something about a change of scenery that will send a clear message that you’re prepared to get it on.
Maybe you can’t afford a new hotel or new location, but everyone can make the same locations seem new with some romantic lighting. The next time you want to get down and dirty with your guy, try investing in some new LEDS that will turn your bedroom into a technicolor palace, or go for the traditional candles that send a clear message. With the right lighting and some romantic music, you can send your man to new places he’s only dreamed of.
Use Your Words
No matter what they may tell you, men are just as insecure in bed as women are. And, just like women, they love to hear what they’re doing right. The next time you’re with your man, get a little more vocal when he’s making the right moves. The surge of confidence will make him love you even more, and treat you the best way possible as a result.
Set the Scene
Rose petals and candles aren’t just for the ladies, men can appreciate a little love, too. Just put on a little music, get out some wine glasses, and fill the bathtub with bubbles. Your man won’t be able to resist your enticing love trap. (Bonus: This plan is a win-win, because there’s never a bad time to enjoy a romantic bubble bath. Even with yourself!)
Make Him Wait
We’ve all heard the phrase “Take me out to dinner first,” but few ladies think to give their man something beforehand. Invite your guy out for the night, but spend the evening revealing what you’ll be doing to him after. He’ll be so attracted to you, he won’t even be able to read the menu. If you’re feeling really devilish, make him stay for dessert. Just remind him when he’s practically begging you to leave that he’ll be getting his something sweet at home.
Anyone can send a naughty message, but few guys get to go behind the scenes. Instead of sending your man a picture, give him the camera and let yourself play model for the night. Seeing you pose for him will drive your man wild.